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Domiciliary Care in Exeter

Have you been told you need domiciliary care in Exeter and are not sure what that means?

Care in your own home from an independent carer, with the jargon explained plainly

Domiciliary care is the phrase you will hear from a social worker, a hospital or the council. It simply means care in your own home. Here is what it covers, how it is usually arranged, how a direct payment fits in, and what changes when you engage an independent carer rather than a company.

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What domiciliary care in Exeter actually means

If you have recently had a conversation with a social worker, a discharge coordinator or somebody at Devon County Council, you have probably heard the phrase domiciliary care. It is not a special kind of care. It is any care delivered in the place where you live, as opposed to a care home, a nursing home or a hospital. Help with washing and dressing at home is domiciliary care. So is somebody coming in to make lunch and prompt the tablets. Most families call it home care, and they are right to.

The reason the word matters is that it decides how care is arranged and paid for. When the council assesses somebody as needing support at home, they will talk about domiciliary care, and they will offer one of two routes to get it.

The two ways domiciliary care is usually arranged

The first route is that the council, or you, engage a company. The company employs carers, holds a registration with the Care Quality Commission, runs a rota, and sends whoever is available. That is the model most people picture when they hear the word, and it suits a lot of families, particularly where needs are high or where cover for absence matters more than continuity.

The second route is that you engage a person directly. The council calls this a personal assistant. You choose the individual, agree the hours and the tasks, and direct the care yourself. Because the carer works under your direction rather than for a company, the arrangement sits outside CQC registration. It is a recognised and long-established way of arranging care, and it is how I work. The trade-off is simple and I do not hide it. You get one known person, and you take on the job of planning for their absence.

Direct payments from Devon County Council

If the council has assessed you and agreed that you are eligible for support, you can usually ask for a direct payment rather than a council-arranged provider. A direct payment is a sum of money paid to you, or to somebody managing it on your behalf, to arrange your own care. Spending it on a self-employed carer is one of the most common uses.

The council may ask to see that whoever you engage is insured and DBS checked, and may want a record of hours. I keep those records anyway, and I bring the documents to the first visit. If you are not sure whether you would qualify, the starting point is a needs assessment from the council's adult social care team, which you or a family member can ask for. I will happily talk it through, though I cannot apply on your behalf.

Paying privately

Many families pay for domiciliary care themselves, either because they do not qualify for council support or because they would rather not wait for an assessment. That is entirely straightforward here. An agreed hourly rate, a written agreement, and an invoice. My usual arrangement is a minimum term of three months, paid in advance, and that is open for discussion at the first visit. There is no registration fee.

What I do, and what I do not

I provide personal care, medication support, meals, help getting out, light housework and company, at agreed times, any day of the week. I do not provide nursing, so injections, dressings and clinical tasks come from the district nursing service. I do not provide overnight or live-in care. I do not do two-person moving and handling alone. And because I work by myself, I cannot provide a replacement when I am ill or away. Before we start, I help you plan for that, and the plan goes in writing with everything else.

Checking an independent carer

Whoever you engage, ask to see three things. An enhanced DBS certificate, ideally with the adults barred list check and, better still, on the DBS Update Service so you can verify it online. An insurance schedule covering public liability and professional indemnity. And training certificates for moving and handling, safeguarding, medication and first aid. I bring all three to the first visit without being asked. If somebody cannot produce them, keep looking.

Domiciliary care from an independent carer

  • Care in your own home

    That is all the word means. You stay where you are, in your own bed and your own routine, and the help comes to you.

  • Engaged directly by you

    No provider chosen by somebody else. You choose the person, agree the terms and direct the care, which is the arrangement the council calls a personal assistant.

  • Direct payments accepted

    If Devon County Council has offered you a direct payment, you can usually spend it on a self-employed carer. I will explain the paperwork.

  • Everything checkable

    Enhanced DBS certificate, insurance documents and training certificates, all shown to you at the first visit. You do not have to take my word for anything.

  • No office between us

    The hourly rate is for my time with you. There is no coordinator, no care manager and no margin, because there is no company.

  • Plain about the limits

    I cannot provide cover for my own absence, I do not do nights, and I am not a nurse. Knowing that before you start is what makes it work.

How domiciliary care gets arranged with me

  1. Step 1: A phone call

    Tell me what is going on. No script and no sales pitch. If it is not something I can safely take on, I will say so on that call.

  2. Step 2: A visit, free of charge

    I come to you. We sit down, talk through what would actually help, and you decide whether I am the right fit. No charge and no obligation.

  3. Step 3: A written agreement

    Days, times, what I will do and what it costs, in plain English. Yours to keep, and nothing in it changes without asking you first.

  4. Step 4: We start

    Same carer, every visit. After a few weeks I know the routine, the neighbours, and which mug is the right one.

How this compares

Three ways families arrange care at home. None is right for everyone, and the honest answer is usually about what matters most to you.

Independent carer compared with an agency and with live-in care
Question Private Independent Care An agency Live-in care
Who turns up Me, every time. You met me before anything was agreed. Whoever is on the rota that day. Often a different person each week. One carer living in the house, with a second covering their days off.
How long a visit lasts As long as we agreed. I am not counting down to the next address. Frequently 30 minutes, sometimes 15, and the travel between calls comes out of it. Not visit based. Support is available through the day, with agreed breaks.
What you pay for Between £20 and £40 an hour for the hours I am with you, one figure agreed in writing before we start. Usual minimum term three months, paid in advance, open for discussion at the first visit. An hourly rate set by the agency, which also pays for an office, a manager and a rota. Ask each one for its rate and terms. A weekly fee, usually well over a thousand pounds, plus board and lodging.
When I am ill or away I cannot send anyone else. You keep a backup arrangement, and I help you set one up before we start. The office sends a replacement, though you may not know them. The provider arranges relief cover.
Who you deal with Me. The person doing the care is the person you ring. A coordinator or care manager, then the carer. The provider, then the carer.
Regulation Engaged directly by you, working under your direction, which sits outside CQC registration. DBS checked and insured, and I will show you both. Registered with the CQC and inspected. Usually a provider registered with the CQC.

I do not offer live-in, overnight or nursing care. If that is what is needed I will say so at the first phone call.

What it costs

Hourly rate

£20 to £40 per hour

Where in that range depends on what is needed. I give you one fixed figure at the free first visit, in writing, before anything is agreed.

  • The rate is all in. Mileage is included, there is no VAT to add, and there is no registration fee or charge for the first visit.
  • Minimum visit one hour. Usual minimum term three months, paid in advance, open for discussion at the first visit.
  • A visit I miss, or cannot complete because I am ill, is not charged. The time is carried over to another visit or refunded, whichever you prefer.
  • A visit you cancel with 48 hours notice is carried over. With less notice it is charged.
  • 14 days to change your mind after signing the agreement. Visits you asked me in writing to start in that time are paid for.
  • Two weeks notice to end the arrangement, from either of us. If it ends early you pay for the visits made and the notice period, and the rest is returned.
Full rates, worked weekly examples and how direct payments work

Questions families ask

What does domiciliary care mean?

It means care provided in your own home rather than in a care home or hospital. The word comes from domicile, meaning where you live. Social workers, hospitals and the council tend to use it. Most families say home care, and they mean the same thing.

Are you a domiciliary care provider registered with the CQC?

No. The CQC registers providers that employ carers and send them out to people. I am a self-employed carer engaged directly by you and working under your direction, which sits outside registration. It is the arrangement the council calls a personal assistant. I am enhanced DBS checked, insured and trained, and I show you all of it.

Can I use a direct payment to pay you?

Usually, yes. A direct payment is money Devon County Council gives you to arrange your own care after an assessment. Spending it on a self-employed carer is a common and recognised use. The council may ask to see that I am insured and DBS checked, and may want records of hours. I will help you with all of that.

What if social services have offered me a provider already?

You can still choose. If you have been assessed as eligible, you can ask for a direct payment instead of a council-arranged provider and use it to engage an independent carer. If you are funding care yourself, the choice is entirely yours.

What can you not do?

Nursing tasks such as injections, dressings and catheter care. Two-person moving and handling. Overnight or live-in care. And I cannot send anyone else when I am unavailable. Anything outside those limits, I can talk through with you at the first visit.

How do I check you are who you say you are?

Ask to see the enhanced DBS certificate, the insurance schedule and the training certificates. I bring them to the first visit. You are also welcome to ask for the details of anyone who can vouch for me.

Other things I can help with

  • Home Care

    Help at home with the things that have become hard, from one carer you know.

    About home care
  • Visiting Care

    Regular visits, morning, midday, afternoon or evening, that last as long as they need to.

    About visiting care
  • After Hospital Care

    Support for the first few weeks back at home after a stay in hospital.

    About after hospital care
  • Long Term Care

    An ongoing arrangement that changes as needs change, with the same face throughout.

    About long term care
  • Personal Care

    Washing, dressing and continence support, done with patience and privacy.

    About personal care

Where I work

A tight patch on purpose. Everyone I take on will live within a short drive of everyone else, which is what keeps visits unhurried and on time. Postcodes EX1 to EX6.

Been told to arrange domiciliary care?

Ring me and I will explain the options in plain English, including the ones that are not me.